Posted by: robinriyadh | November 4, 2009

BLAHS TODAY (04NOV09)

It was quite toxic at the office yesterday and the toxicity level was raised a notch more by a domestic issue. But all’s well that ended well I hope. Some days indeed can be dark and dreary.

Even then, I still had the chance to review blogs on my favorite list. One of them posited the question of the relevance of mounting non-Filipino (actually, “Western”) plays. The blog author actually clipped a review of a play; theblog author asked his readers about their own takes on the issues that were forced out into the open both by the clipped review and the blog author’s own views.

I wanted very much to weigh in but I didn’t. So much for intellectual pursuits.

I also read a news article about a dying man (he suffers from an incurable disease of the nervous sytem) who held his funeral while he is still alive. What a novel concept, but one that has so many ethical conundrums built-in into the equation.

Would I want to do something like that?

It was markedly colder this morning than yesterday morning. Autumn indeed is here!

Best of luck to Jun R. on his exams tomorrow!

Finally, today is the birthday of one of my fave sis-in-laws – happy birthday Ate M!

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 28, 2009

CLIP: A FILIPINA FEATURED IN LOCAL NEWS

via http://www.arabnews.com/?page=9&section=0&article=127741&d=27&m=10&y=2009

It’s one of those rare times when Arab News features a citizen of the Philippines in its pages so I just had to clip and share with you. – Rob

Bea Valdes: World-famous Filipina designer
Lisa Kaaki | Arab News
 
In the next few years, Asian and African designers will play an increasing role on the global fashion scene. Even the most famous European fashion designers such as the genial Galiano and even the late Yves Saint Laurent often turned to the East for inspiration.

The Filipina designer, Bea Valdes, is currently enjoying an unprecedented success, both in Europe and the United States. Valdes, whose family has been working in the jewelry business for three generations, began designing evening bags in 2004. She soon became interested in statement neckpieces, these giant necklaces which add “wow” to the most casual clothes.

Her ‘artrageous’ creations have been photographed in Harper’s Bazaar, Newsweek, Glamour and Marie Claire. More recently, British Vogue’s September issue featured Kate Moss wearing only a Burberry trench coat and a sublime neckpiece by Bea Valdes. Sold in well-known shops such as Barney’s, Harvey Nichols and Saks Fifth Avenue, her jewelry has been worn by Sharon Stone, Kate Hudson and of course Kate Moss. A Bea Valdes piece, whether a bag or a neckpiece, takes around a month to finish. Each piece is handmade and can consist of up to 75 different beads, crystals, and even semiprecious stones. “I don’t really plan what I create. I begin by working on my panels. Sometimes, a panel will tell me what it wants to be, a bag or a neckpiece. We are a work in progress and that is the kind of mindset I plan on keeping for the years to come. We are in constant search of new material and we aim to evolve in design and technique,” she explains. She has chosen to remain in the Philippines where she works closely with her team of forty artisans. She feels it is important to maintain a creative environment and Manila is the only place where what she wants can be done as she wants.

Bea Valdes grew up in the Philippines. She graduated with a degree in Industrial Design from the University of the Philippines and then studied Interior Design in London. When she was applying to Central Saint Martins for Jewelry Design, a professor she met for an interview, saw the embroidered panels she had brought along and told her to use them as bags. In 2000, she created 12 egg-shaped bags which were an instant success. And her breakthrough happened when one of Bea’s clients brought some of the bespoke bags to Vogue and they immediately requested a photo shoot and an interview. She is presently famous for her gorgeous, bold necklaces, the niche she was looking for, a kind of jewelry which is neither fine nor costume.

“It was like trying to create the antithesis of fine jewelry while still capturing the drama of it,” says Bea who was surprised by customers’ reactions. A number of women felt they were too short to wear such huge pieces: “I am quite small myself and love the fact that the pieces are oversized.”

Bea draws some inspiration from outside the fashion world, presently she is mostly influenced by writers such as Edward Gorey and the French poet Charles Baudelaire. She admits that she likes pieces that tell a story and according to her sister Marga: “She designs everything for herself, something I would wear, something she would wear. It’s just something she would like.” As for Bea, every time she starts working on a new bag, she says: “This will be my favorite piece. And then, the next time I start another, I say it again. That’s my motivation.”

Her bold necklaces have been doing very well since they were launched on the market a couple of seasons ago. The best-selling pieces are the most intricate, most of which are bespoke. Besides the regular collections which are sold worldwide, Bea Valdes continues to do special orders for private customers in Manila and abroad.

Despite her global success, the most well-known Filipina designer remains unchanged. Bea Valdes still spends most of her time designing, despite the birth of her daughter, Bella. Her presence, however, has affected Bea’s creativity. She tends now to use fewer dark and bold colors in favor of pastels and light colors.

For Bea Valdes, “The most important thing in one’s life is that you do the work you love with the people you love.”

 

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 24, 2009

I GOT BITTEN BY A CAT AND OTHER BLAHS

CAT BITE
Yesterday (Friday/Oct. 23) at lunch, I was feeding Merrill some chicken morsels when he missed them and instead got the tip of my forefinger. My, was it painful! I really felt Merrill’s tooth as it punctured my flesh. Blood oozed out of the puncture wound immediately and I rushed to the kitchen to get the blood and the wound washed by tap water. Dennis went to look for a Band Aid strip.

Merrill seemed to sense he contributed to something awful for he made himself scarce while we were in panic mode over the bleeding wound; we found him hiding under the shelf which we use as our cupboard.

After the bleeding stopped, due to the Band Aid strip wound too tight around the wound, I felt that all was well that ended well. But after about two hours, my forefinger turned hard and swollen. This spurred me to check the Internet for cat bites. All the articles I read said that cat bites must be taken seriously for they are dangerous, if not for rabies, then for the bacteria in cats’ mouths which may lead to fatal infection specially of a puncture wound.

Dennis arranged to get me to a doctor, just to be on the sure side against any possible infection. After about SR300, I got a prescription for pain relief, and antibiotic ointment and pills.

MEETING NEW PEOPLE
Also over the weekend, Dennis and I met a couple and their two kids. The wife works in a hospital. When she heard about Kuya Ed’s dialysis treatments, she readily offered to get some of the medication he might need. If we can give her a list of the medicines, she can maybe get some for free.

This reminded me of inspirational stories/messages I read before, of why fate makes us meet total strangers who turn out to be generous souls.

The lady has been a friend of a friend for many years and it’s only recently that our paths crossed.

A few times in the past, whenever Dennis and I meet new people, I would sometimes ask him, “Why do you think we met this particular person? Is there a design behind the meeting?”

I never get a coherent answer from Dennis but we both seem to believe and hope that meeting a particular stranger can only mean blessings.

THE GOVERNMENT THAT THE PHILIPPINES NEEDS
The recent disasters that ravaged parts of the Philippines in recent weeks and months brought out what’s best with the Philippines and Filipinos – that in the direst of straits, we rise to the occassion.

I hope and I pray that come election time, the same sterling qualities – our resilience and tenacity – will urge voters to elect into office leaders who will transform the Philippines into a modern country, a nation that is aware of how best to use technology to make communities green and environments sustainable.

We don’t need a leader so involved in politics, not even in economics. The so-called changing global climate, and how best we must respond and adapt, must be the primary basis for our choice of leaders now.

And such a leader certainly goes beyond planting a tree on Arbor Day.

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 20, 2009

CLIP: 2009′S BEST BLOGS

[via http://pinoyambisyoso.com/blogs/philippine-blog-awards-2009-winners#more-5495 who in turn, got it from the Philippine Blog Awards website.]

This is my humble homage to award-winning bloggers. – Rob

Here are the Philippine Blog Awards 2009 Winners.

SPECIAL AWARDS
Best Blog Design – The Site Guy
Best Filipino Blog Abroad – The Warped Zone
Best Foreign Blog – My Sari Sari Store
Blogger’s Choice – Micamyx
Best Filipiniana Blog – Pilipino Komiks

TEN BEST POSTS OF THE YEAR
Karnabal by Tuyong Tinta ng Bolpen
Finding Your Soul Mate: A Statistical Analysis
by Guttervomit
Lost Gems Of Philippine History: The 1896 Board Meeting by It’s true! It’s true!
The Diving Boys of Quezon Bridge by Dennis Villegas
Twenty Pesos by Lostphotograph
The way of the leaf by SMOKE
Portrait of a dramatic highlight in Nick Joaquin’s A Portrait of the Artist as Filipino by Gibbs Cadiz
Kaya Dumarami ang Bading Kasi… by Manila Gay Guy
The Parable of the Furry White Rabbit by Good Times Manila
The Amazing Bulul: A Story of Epiphany by The Cat Whisperer

BEST BLOGS
Best Technology Blog – Jaypee Online
Best Travel Blog – Langyaw – Sojourns and Off-the-Beaten Path Travels
Best Entertainment Blog – Lessons From the School of Inattention
Best Personal Blog – Writing on Air
Best Food & Beverage Blog – Table for Three, Please
Best Family & Living Blog – Make or Break
Best News & Media Blog – Virtual Journals
Best Business Blog – Negosyo Ideas
Best Sports Blog – Fire Quinito
Best Hobby & Recreation Blog – Bearbrick Love
Best Fashion Blog – Who is Elyoo?
Best Photoblog – I Am a Documentary Photographer
Best Culture and Arts Blog – magnetic-rose.net: Japanese Pop Culture for Filipino Fans
Best Commentary Blog – The Marocharim Experiment
Best Videocast Blog – Entrepbuff.com
Best Podcast Blog – Brink Notes Entertainment Daily
Best Humor Blog – The Professional Heckler
Best Gaming Blog – Blog Mike Got Game!
Best Advocacy Blog – Autism Society of the Philippines
Best Beauty Blog – The Doctor Is vaINlo

Source : PBA 2009 Website

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 17, 2009

OUT ON A PICNIC


Yesterday (Friday/Oct. 16), Dennis and I went with a gang of friends to a picnic site in the outskirts of Riyadh. The area is called Ha-ir and infamous locally as the site of the equivalent of our Bilibid prisons at Muntinlupa. It is also known among Filipinos as a picnic site, if only for the streams that crisscross the area.

The last time Dennis and I were at Ha-ir was in the 1990s. I was looking forward to making tampisaw again in the streams, but it was not to be. We went to a private compound that looks like it used to be a farm. It was obvious that the farm is no longer in use as one – the animals have long been gone. There only remained the remnants of stables and an oval truck used for exercising horses.

The farm is in disarray; indeed, it is in a sorry, derelict and dilapidated state. This however, did not deter Filipinos from making the most out of the place.

The ex-farm’s caretakers have built ramshackle sheds with makeshift wooden tables and grilling areas. For a fee, they supply plastic chairs and tables. A nearby store, by the compound’s gate, sells stuff including charcoal and ice.

The appeal of the place is its distance from the city; it is also said that unlike in an esteraja (resort), the farm is out-of-bounds to the religious police. The presumption being, you can engage in hanky-panky without fear if you’re so inclined.

We weren’t and so we bonded instead on kantiyawan (teasing) and stories. We also grilled fresh tilapia and marinated spring chicken. We finished our meal with cones of ice cream from a mobile ice cream van.

Karlo brought his Savage RC and let it roam roaring in the uneven fields.

The other Filipinos (methinks there were only Filipinos) in many other groups were either singing to videoke and eating brunch or lunch. Some were going around taking photos as there are areas in the compound that seem to be under renovation, making those areas look like portions of the old city of Diriyah.

The picnic was far from relaxing; the fun was in mingling with friends.

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 15, 2009

NEW HOUSEMATES

Dennis and I have been playing hosts to new housemates since about two weeks ago, but not of the Big Brother type. They are new additions to the company I work for. They were provided housing allowances but since they’re still new, we played up the charitable gene and invited them to stay at our flat.

At first, we had two of them. We picked them up at the airport. One arrived early but was held up at Immigration for finger-printing. It took us about four hours of waiting before we finally saw him get out of the Customs area. The other one (we picked him up the next day), went through Immigration and Customs in a breeze but he did not go through the finger-printing process. This means that the company will have to find a way to get him finger-printed one of these days, which in turn means, he has to queue up just the same.

The first two stayed with us for a week. They moved to another flat (offered by equally well-meaning kababayan). They did not have to rent space but the new villa is quite a distance to the office and so they are spending quite a sum on transport – that is, if they can’t catch one of the many so-called “colorum” modes of transport that ply their district.

The third one arrived just when the first two were leaving. He too arrived early in the airport but managed to get out of the Customs area also after about four hours and sans finger-printing. All that waiting for nothing! You also have to wonder how the finger-printing process goes in the airports. Is it up to the whims and caprices of those in charge?

The third one is still with us as I write this. All three of them are planning to rent just one space, preferably something nearer to what will become our company’s new digs.

I was in full Martha Stewart mode when our new housemates stayed with us. They were picked up at the airport and they had quilt-covered mattresses and matching pillows to sleep on. They even had free rein of my laptop so they can chat with their loved ones and tell them they arrived safely and safely ensconsced in our flat, he he.

One time, I had the foresight of asking them if anyone is allergic to seafood (I was planning to serve crabs in coconut milk). One of them said that he doesn’t eat crabs but not because he is allergic but because his faith/religion does not condone eating shellfish. It turns out, as he explained it later, that his faith/religion only lets him eat seafood that has scales!

Chalk up that one to learning something new everyday.

It’s refreshing to have new people at our flat; Dennis and I are more than pleased to be of help.

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 5, 2009

WHEN LOCAL YOUTH WENT ON A RAMPAGE

On the night when they were supposed to be celebrating their National Day, and when their King was inaugurating his eponymous state-of-the-art research university in the Western region, many local youth in the Eastern region collectively decided to go on a rampage to vandalize and loot many establishments along the Eastern region’s famed and popular Corniche.

It was a rare display of seemingly spontaneous mass action.

Those caught were immediately sentenced to public flogging.

From news reports, the rampage was precipitated by shouts that a particular chain of restaurants identified/classified as Western (or American) was a supporter of Israel. It was more than sufficient call for the local youth to break window panels and ransack the restaurant including other nearby food outlets and shops.

Media of course was rife with commentaries and analyses. Even letter-writers joined in letting their views be heard/read. The popular sentiment among them included the lament that there is a current lack of avenues, if not channels (venues and activities) for local youth nervous energies that could very well occupy their minds and time. Government is being blamed for such lack. Communities,schools, parents and families too are being blamed.

My take on all of this is that everyone seems to be right. Everyone deserves the blame game and the finger-pointing.

After all, someone once famously said, “It takes a village.”

Posted by: robinriyadh | October 4, 2009

CLIP: TYPHOON SURVIVAL KIT

Via http://blogs.stylebible.ph/rajosblog/:

TYPHOON SURVIVAL KIT

  1. Clean drinking water. Good enough for a week. Consider having at least 1 gallon per person.
  2. Other drinks. Consider: juices in packs, carbonated drinks, coffee.
  3. Food. Also good enough for a week. Consider:
    • Snacks that are easy to store and carry (biscuits, cookies)
    • Non-perishable canned food (corned beef, tuna, pork and beans, vienna sausage, etc.)
    • Candies to maintain sugar in body and keep acidity at bay
    • Bread that will last for a few days, for carbo load
    • Instant noodles, if you have the means to cook
    • IMPORTANT: food for babies and the elderly if you have some staying with you
  4. Food utensils.
    • Spoons, forks, knives, paper plates, drinking cups
    • Non-electric can opener
    • Cooking stove and fuel, if possible
    • Plastic bags
  5. Medicines. Consider having medicines for the following:
    • Fever and nausea
    • Coughs and colds
    • Hypertension
    • Diabetes
    • Diarrhea
    • Anti-tetanus
    • Anti-leptospirosis
    • Other prescription drugs that you need to take
  6. First Aid kit. Must contain band-aids, gauze, tweezers, alcohol, antibiotic ointment, hydrogen peroxide, bandage scissors, absorbent dressings, antiseptic wipe packets, cold compress, gloves and thermometer.
  7. Sanitation kit. Make sure that you have tissue wipes, toilet paper, sanitary napkins, diapers.
  8. Toiletries. These include toothpaste, toothbrushes, soap.
  9. Blankets, towels, comforters, pillows. You can put them in large garbage bags to keep from getting wet.
  10. Extra clothes and underwear. Put them in plastic bags to avoid from getting wet. If you can, pack something that will last you for a few days.
  11. Jackets, sweaters, socks, caps. And anything else that will keep you warm and dry.
  12. Emergency lights and flashlights
  13. Fresh batteries. Have reserves for batteries of different sizes, especially for radios and flashlights.
  14. Radio. Must be portable, battery operated, has functional AM station.
  15. Mobile phone. Make sure the battery is fully charged, and that you have a spare one, too, in case of emergency. Also consider walkie-talkies.
  16. Cash. Banks and ATMs might not be available so make sure that you have cash with you.
  17. Keys. Have copies of keys to the front door, back door, garage, car, etc.
  18. Items for pets. Consider also having a leash, muzzle, cage and food for your pets.
  19. Umbrellas and tents
  20. Water pails and dippers
  21. Floatation devices like life jackets, styrofoams, old tires, etc.
  22. Rope

IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS TO PROTECT

Many people have died trying to go back for these things, so it’s important that you are well-prepared already at this point in time. Keep these documents in a water-proof container:

  1. Birth certificates
  2. Insurance records
  3. Medical records
  4. SSS, Pag-ibig and Philhealth records
  5. Identification cards
  6. Passports
  7. Bank account numbers and records
  8. Emergency contact numbers
  9. Contact numbers of family, friends and loved ones
Posted by: robinriyadh | October 4, 2009

CLIP: TO ALL FILIPINOS EVERYWHERE; PRAYERS

I can only conclude that the letter below has gone viral. I got this from an email from a friend and a former colleague who is now based in New Zealand. He in turn got it from someone else who described the letter-writer as a “brave Filipina.” He didn’t say though why he believes the letter-writer is brave.

More than being in awe of her bravery, methinks it is more important to be inspired to pray for our country. My friend/former colleague quotes thus from the Bible: 

IF MY PEOPLE, who are called by my name, will HUMBLE themselves and PRAY and SEEK MY FACE and TURN FROM THEIR WICKED WAYS, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.
- 2 Chronicles 7:14

If I am not mistaken, this is the same inscription visible at the church at the corner of Ortigas and EDSA.

Of all the prayers I’ve read, this is said to be powerful. From an article in pdionline (http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20091001-227886/Legazpi-bishop-asks-Filipinos-to-say-powerful-prayer), an auxiliary bishop shares the “Oratio Imperata for Deliverance From Calamities” -

“Almighty Father, we raise our hearts to You in gratitude for the wonders of creation of which we are part, for Your providence in sustaining us in our needs, and for Your wisdom that guides the course of the universe.

“We acknowledge our sins against You and the rest of creation.

“We have not been good stewards of Nature.

“We have confused Your command to subdue the earth.

“The environment is made to suffer our wrongdoing, and now we reap the harvest of our abuse and indifference.

“Global warming is upon us. Typhoons, floods, volcanic eruption, and other natural calamities occur in increasing number and intensity.

“We turn to You, our loving Father, and beg forgiveness for our sins.

“We ask that we, our loved ones and our hard earned possessions be spared from the threat of calamities, natural and man-made.

“We beseech You to inspire us all to grow into responsible stewards of Your creation, and generous neighbors to those in need.

“Amen.” 

*************************

To all Filipinos Everywhere:

I used to think that corruption and criminality in the Philippines were caused by poverty. But recent events tell me this isn’t true. It is one thing to see people turn into drug addicts, prostitutes, thieves and murderers because of hunger and poverty, but what excuse do these rich, educated people have that could possibly explain their bizarre behavior? And to think I was always so relieved when petty snatchers got caught and locked away in jail because I never fully realized that the big time thieves were out there, making the laws and running our country. Can it get any worse than this?

Every night, I come home and am compelled to turn on my tv to watch the latest turn of events. I am mesmerized by these characters. They are not men. They are caricatures of men – too unreal to be believable and too bad to be real. To see these “honorable” crooks lambast each other, call each one names, look each other in the eye and accuse the other of committing the very same crimes that they themselves are guilty of, is so comical and apalling that I don’t know whether to laugh or cry. It is entertainment at its worst!

I have never seen so many criminals roaming around unfettered and looking smug until now. These criminals wear suits and barongs, strut around with the confidence of the rich and famous, inspire fear and awe from the very citizens who voted them to power, bear titles like “Honorable”, “Senator”, “Justice”, “General” and worse, “President”. Ironically, these lawless individuals practice law, make our laws, enforce the law. And we wonder why our policemen act the way they do! These are their leaders, and the leaders of this nation – Robin Hoodlum and his band of moneymen. Their motto? “Rob the poor, moderate the greed of the rich.”

It makes me wonder where on earth these people came from, and what kind of upbringing they had to make them act the way they do for all the world to see. It makes me wonder what kind of schools they went to, what kind of teachers they had, what kind of environment would produce such creatures who can lie, cheat and steal from an already indebted country and from the impoverished people they had vowed to serve. It makes me wonder what their children and grandchildren think of them, and if they are breeding a whole new generation of improved Filipino crooks and liars with maybe a tad more style but equally negligible conscience. Heaven forbid!

I am an ordinary citizen and taxpayer. I am blessed to have a job that pays for my needs and those of my family’s, even though 30% of my earnings go to the nation’s coffers. Just like others in my lot, I have complained time and again because our government could not provide enough of the basic services that I expect and deserve. Rutty roads, poor educational system, poor social services, poor health services, poor everything. But I have always thought that was what all third world countries were all about, and my complaints never amounted to anything more.

And then this. Scandalous government deals. Plundering presidents pointing fingers. Senators associated with crooks. Congressmen who accept bribes. Big time lawyers on the side of injustice. De Venecia ratting on his boss only after his interminable term has ended, Enrile inquiring about someone’s morality! The already filthy rich Abalos and Arroyo wanting more money than they or their great grandchildren could ever spend in a lifetime. Joker making a joke of his own “pag bad ka, lagot ka!” slogan.. Defensor rendered defenseless. Gen. Razon involved in kidnapping. Security men providing anything but a sense of security. And it’s all about money, money, money that the average Juan de la Cruz could not even imagine in his dreams. Is it any wonder why our few remaining decent and hardworking citizens are leaving to go work in other countries?

And worst of all, we are once again saddled with a power-hungry president whose addiction has her clinging on to it like barnacle on a rusty ship. “Love (of power) is blind” takes a whole new meaning when PGMA time and again turns a blind eye on her husband’s financial deals. And still blinded with all that is happening, she opts to traipse around the world with her cohorts in tow while her country is in shambles.

They say the few stupid ones like me who remain in the Philippines are no longer capable of showing disgust. I don’t agree. Many like me feel anger at the brazenness of men we call our leaders, embarrassment to share the same nationality with them, frustration for our nation and helplessness at my own ineffectuality. It is not that I won’t make a stand. It is just that I am afraid my actions would only be futile. After all, these monsters are capable of anything. They can hurt me and my family. They already have, though I may not yet feel it..

But I am writing this because I need to do something concrete. I need to let others know that ordinary citizens like me do not remain lukewarm to issues that would later affect me and my children. I want to make it known that there are also Filipinos who dream of something better for the Philippines. I want them to know that my country is not filled with scalawags and crooks in every corner, and that there are citizens left who believe in decency, fairness, a right to speak, a right to voice out ideas, a right to tell the people we have trusted to lead us that they have abused their power and that it is time for them to step down. I refuse to let this country go to hell because it is the only country I call mine and it is my responsibility to make sure I have done what I could for it.

Those of us who do not have the wealth, power or position it needs to battle the evil crime lords in the government can summon the power of good. We can pray. We can do this with our families every night. We can offer petitions every time we celebrate mass. We can ask others to pray, too, including relatives and friends here and overseas. And we can offer sacrifices along with our petitions, just so we get the message to Him of our desperation in ridding our nation of these vermin. After all, they cannot be more powerful than God!

I implore mothers out there to raise your children the best way you can. Do not smother, pamper, or lavish them with too much of the material comforts of life even if you can well afford them. Teach them that there are more important things in this world. I beg all fathers to spend time with their children, to teach them the virtues of hard work, honesty, fair play, sharing, dignity and compassion – right from the sandbox till they are old enough to go on their own. Not just in your homes, but at work, in school, everywhere you go. Be good role models. Be shining examples for your children so they will learn to be responsible adults who will carry and pass on your family name with pride and honor.

I call on educators and teachers – we always underestimate the power of your influence on the minds of our youth. Encourage them to be aware of what is happening in their surroundings. Instill in them a love of their country, inculcate in them the value of perseverance in order to gain real, worthwhile knowledge, help us mold our children into honorable men and women. Encourage our graduates, our best and brightest, to do what they can to lift this country from the mire our traditional politicians have sunk us into. The youth is our future – and it would be largely because of you, our educators, that we will be able to repopulate the seats of power with good leaders, presidents, senators, congressmen, justices, lawmakers, law enforcers and lawful citizens.

I ask all students, young people and young professionals everywhere to look around and get involved in what is happening. Do not let your youth be an excuse for failure to concern yourselves with the harsh realities you see. But neither let this make you cynical, because we need your idealism and fresh perspective just as you need the wisdom of your elders. YOUR COUNTRY NEEDS YOU! Let your voices be heard. Do what you can for this land that gave you your ancestors and your heritage. Use technology and all available resources at hand to spread good. Text meaningful messages to awaken social conscience. Try your best to fight moral decay because I promise you will not regret it when you become parents yourselves. You will look back at your past misdeeds and pray that your children will do better than you did.

Remember that there are a few handful who are capable of running this country.. You can join their ranks and make their numbers greater. We are tired of the old trapos. We need brave idealistic leaders who will think of the greater good before anything else. Do your utmost to excel in your chosen field.. Be good lawyers, civil servants, accountants, computer techs, engineers, doctors, military men so that when you are called to serve in government, you will have credibility and a record that can speak for itself.

For love of this country, for the future of our children, for the many who have sacrificed and died to uphold our rights and ideals, I urge you to do what you can. As ordinary citizens, we can do much more for the Philippines than sit around and let crooks lead us to perdition. We owe ourselves this. And we owe our country even more.

Remedios C. Paningbatan
Administrative Officer
Office of the General Counsel
Asian Development Bank
Tel (632) 632-4248
www.adb.org

Posted by: robinriyadh | September 29, 2009

REJOINDER TO CLIP: J. B. AND HER FACEBOOK COMMENTS

Now, I’m going to comment.

I have been looking forward to getting the other party’s side and true enough, the following email trail came my way.

I cannot recklessly react on J. Bermejo’s supposed FaceBook comments; I sort of had been where she is right now.

I used to be the kind of person who could not give a damn about giving a knee-jerk reaction to certain issues. But thanks to a painful experience with a blog commenter who circulated to his e-groups a blog entry I wrote, so that I can be what he described as the “laughing stock” of cyberspace, I learned a lesson.

I have since confirmed the blog commenter’s identity and the extent of the ridicule he exposed me and Dennis to, and I have yet to forgive and forget. From that painful experience, I learned my lesson well – that I must be fair; that I must not immediately or necessarily believe every email (or similar type ofmessage I receive), specially if it denigrates a person or any other entity, at least not until I have a clearer grasp of the subject situation.  I must give the subject of the email, the so-called benefit of a doubt. I must not immediately join the mad bandwagon of knee-jerk reactors/commenters who heap equally hurting and vituperous abuse and vilification  on anyone who unfortunately becomes the subject of an email. It’s like they don’t think at all before passing judgment on someone who, I am sure, they do not know the least.

For all I know, there is no truth to it. Granted that there may be truth to it, we’ll never have the big picture. We might be reacting to what one blind man has seen of an elephant.

It hurts a lot when you get harshly judged by way of a knee-jerk reaction.

On the other end of the extreme, it not only hurts but certainly damages reputations if we maliciously spread lies and distorted truths about others, if only out of spite. 

I am never against expressing indignation. We just must be sure we are man enough to own whatever sentiments we express and not take the cowardly route and hide behind a pseudonym.

I must also admit that a fellow blogger who has earned my respect for her views, has inspired me and guided me in how I at look at similar situations.

I have therefore been discriminatory about the kinds of emails I forward.

In the past, I received an email purportedly written by Mons Tantoco-Romulo about two sisters who worked for an airline and who supposedly threw their weight around a beauty shop. I could not, thoughtlessly and mindlessly, forward the same email. How could I if it was written in really bad English? And it was written by Ms. Romulo?

If I can obviously spot a hate campaign and still forward it, it would speak a lot about me, more than perhaps the people being judged in that email.

Lately, I received an email that featured a print ad for the TV show “Katorse” but it was photoshopped to show the face of Mrs. Dionesia Pacquiao, and the title changed to “Katurse.” Of course it could have been funny, and I think I grinned when I saw/read it. But I could not forward it to my friends by email because of the lessons I painfully learned. I don’t want to unwittingly contribute to hurting a beloved grandmother who does not, from where I stand, deserve ridicule even if innocently enough.

Our technological advances are what a high school classmate once described as a Damocles sword. We must be careful where and how it falls.

In the email trail below, Jacqueline Bermejo hopes to clear her name through her statement. From where I stand, I think that it’s going to be an uphill battle and a Sisyphusian task for her but let’s help her mitigate the damage done to her and her family, loved ones and friends by being discriminating in what we forward and/or circulate in our e-groups.

The good within ourselves must always prevail; we should always try to do the right things for the right reasons.

- Rob

From: Aimee De Vicente [mailto:aimee.devicente@omniyat.com]
Sent: Tuesday, September 29, 2009 3:19 PM
To: dubai_brats_professional@yahoogroups.com
Subject: FW: [UPsaUAE] Official Statement from Jacqueline Bermejo
 
Dati namen sya officemate….  Sa bottom ng e-mail yung official statement nya…
 
From: Rena Alarcon
Sent: Tuesday, September 29, 2009 12:01 PM
To: Jo Dinah Carmel Viterbo; Miriam Reyes Mariňas; Amylene Magnaye; Aimee De Vicente; Kathleen Umbay; Sherilyn Reginio; Emelyn Amistoso; Rotella Dela Pena Galos; aizahm14@yahoo.com; Cyrrine Medalla; Joy Regalado; Joyce Alcantara; Suziefer A. Lim; Shiela Llasus; Sherilyn Reginio; Kathleen Umbay; Emelyn Amistoso; ‘Zarina Paguio’; Fritz Sapon; Trixie Obtinalla; Jerryvic Sinal; Icon Pudadera; Dennis Ventura; Edward Beltran
Subject: RE: [UPsaUAE] Official Statement from Jacqueline Bermejo
 
Thank you Dine. 
 
Last night, someone unknown to me (not even on my friend’s list) in face book sent me message asking about Jacque and if she is a friend. I told him the same way. Being a friend, I was hurt too but we cannot stop people from this unjust comment knowing the real condition our country is experiencing right now.  We don’t know the truth behind all these, might be the result of something behind our understanding to judge but whatever is the case maybe, only God knows.
 
Let’s light a little candle and offer some prayers for the victims & for our beloved Philippines. I believe this is all what our countrymen need for at this stage.
 
Rena B. Alarcon
Sales Team Coordinator
 
P.O.Box 121926, Dubai, U.A.E.
Tel: +971 4 5115500
Fax: +971 4 5115505
One Number: +971 4 5115512
www.omniyat.com
 
A member of OMNIY T HOLDINGS 
 
 From: Jo Dinah Carmel Viterbo [mailto:dinah@essential.ae]
Sent: Tuesday, September 29, 2009 11:41 AM
To: Miriam Reyes Mariňas; Amylene Magnaye; Aimee De Vicente; Kathleen Umbay; Sherilyn Reginio; Emelyn Amistoso; Rotella Dela Pena Galos; aizahm14@yahoo.com; Cyrrine Medalla; Joy Regalado; Joyce Alcantara; Suziefer A. Lim; Rena Alarcon; Shiela Llasus; Sherilyn Reginio; Kathleen Umbay; Emelyn Amistoso; ‘Zarina Paguio’
Subject: RE: [UPsaUAE] Official Statement from Jacqueline Bermejo
 
Lam mo yam, I always make a reply everytime I receive email about Jacqueline ito reply ko sa email and also in Facebook:
 
Dear ——-,
 
Jacqueline Bermejo was a former officemate in the company we both previously worked for.
 
I personally believe that she was not the one who wrote those unconscionable and immoral ” below the belt comment” — it happened also to her Friendster account where the person that hacked her account  berated me and others in her list of friends, sending us messages that personally attacked us, and write the same way “baluktot na English” — good that before I read she already called me that someone hacked her account – she was then working at Right Angle Media.
 
In our previous office, we used to discuss organizing activities for our fellow Filipinos. We even held our first Filipino Christmas party at her flat. When her British friend was looking for a Filipino to manage their branch in Cebu, she disseminated that to me and maybe to others too. Somehow it would say something of her affinity/affection of our fellow Filipinos back home. 
 
Also, she speaks and writes English professionally. She is the kind of person who is a perfectionist in her work. But like each one of us, she has her own faults with her attitude.
 
I DO NOT CONDONE THE COMMENT — it was far from a reasonable and sensible person of which I know Jacque of.  
 
I just want to share what I know of her and of the Friendster incident that happened. Only this time the person who used her account not only hurt us her friends, but the comments were out of moral context and is hurting us, Filipinos, in general.
 
But I respect every Filipino’s sentiment specially those who have read her Facebook comment and the victims of the Typhoon who have learned of this issue because we are all not acquainted with Jacqueline personally.
 
Again I just want to share what I know of her and of the Friendster incident. 
 
Best Regards,
 
Dinah Carmel F. Viterbo
Executive Assistant
Essential Community Management
Level 42, Emirates Office Tower
P.O. Box 191965, Dubai, U.A.E
Tel. No.: 04 – 348 3449
Fax No.:  04 – 348 4121
Mobile:  050 6756400
Email:      dinah@essential.ae
 
 From: Miriam Reyes Mariňas [mailto:miriam.reyes@omniyat.com]
Sent: Tuesday, 29 September 2009 11:29 AM
To: Amylene Magnaye; Aimee De Vicente; Kathleen Umbay; Sherilyn Reginio; Emelyn Amistoso; Rotella Dela Pena Galos; aizahm14@yahoo.com; Cyrrine Medalla; Joy Regalado; Joyce Alcantara; Jo Dinah Carmel Viterbo; Suziefer A. Lim; Rena Alarcon; Shiela Llasus; Sherilyn Reginio; Kathleen Umbay; Emelyn Amistoso; Zarina Paguio
Subject: FW: [UPsaUAE] Official Statement from Jacqueline Bermejo
 
FYI please
 
From: Fritz Sapon
Sent: Tuesday, September 29, 2009 11:26 AM
To: Rena Alarcon; Miriam Reyes Mariňas; Joy Regalado
Subject: FW: [UPsaUAE] Official Statement from Jacqueline Bermejo
 
Kayo nalng po ang bahalang magcirculate to others. .
 
From: UPsaUAE@yahoogroups.com [mailto:UPsaUAE@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of albert alba
Sent: Tuesday, September 29, 2009 10:03 AM
To: albert alba
Subject: [UPsaUAE] Official Statement from Jacqueline Bermejo
 
Dear All,
 
Please read below the official statement from Ms. Jacqueline Bermejo, regarding the controversial post which had circulated in various social networking sites which in turn resulted to a hate campaign against her:
 
“I am issuing this statement to clear my name in the current controversy in which I allegedly posted a highly insensitive and offensive message on the social networking website, Facebook, in relation to the victims of typhoon Ondoy that recently struck parts of the Philippines.

About two years ago, an anonymous source created these accounts using my identity, posting my personal details, my real pictures captioned roughly and attacking other people. Because of these incidents, I reported such abuses and sent my credentials to the administrators of such sites, particularly Facebook. I have been abused and am still being abused online in social networking websites such as Facebook, Friendster, Multiply etc.

In the early stages, I was advised by close friends to ignore the situation, saying this would simply go away. Unfortunately, it has not stopped. Hence, I filed a complaint with the Dubai Police about eight months ago hoping they could help me with my problem. Should anyone wish to check my statement, my case is still under investigation with said authorities.

Time passed and these sites continued to generate malicious, obscene and cruel messages that are widely exposed and relayed to the public under my name.

Yesterday, September 27th 2009, I received phone calls from my close friends regarding very alarming posts in the above mentioned websites that directly offended flood victims as a result of typhoon Ondoy.
These malicious statement(s) which are posted under account names Jacque or Jackie are not of my doing. It is unfortunate that such statements were maliciously attributed to me andI do sympathize and understand the adverse and somehow verbally violent reaction that has been elicited by such insensitive statements or posts. Rest assured, I have taken every legal step that can be done in this regard.

I too, have become a victim as much as those who may have lost their lives and properties to such a devastating natural calamity. This recent controversy has greatly affected my reputation, my family, and my friends. I am devastated and shocked at the extent my character, my personal information and private space have been violated.

I have a deep respect and regard for my country. I am proud to be a Filipino and would never say or do anything to harm the interest of my country or countrymen. I have also had the privilege of participating in civic-oriented activities in Dubai, particularly in trying to help my fellow countrymen seek employment during the height of mass layoffs brought about by the ongoing global financial crisis, as well as those seeking employment for the first time. Making a mockery of any unfortunate incidents befalling any of my fellow Filipinos is simply contrary to my character.  I condemn the person or persons behind these malicious acts to impute damage on my integrity and I hope that you can dig deep into your hearts and minds to truly find the truth in all these.
 
Jacqueline Bermejo”

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